tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24220310.post1031281766847873889..comments2023-07-27T12:09:07.710+00:00Comments on Keep Buggering On!: Johnny No-MatesDr. Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06513202784931937125noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24220310.post-63518705273249760062008-06-08T00:01:00.000+00:002008-06-08T00:01:00.000+00:00You are not the only one on earth who is lonely, a...You are not the only one on earth who is lonely, always remeber that!<BR/>I do feel very lonely due too people lack in understanding me personally. Though, you are not bad or commited nothing. The only thing i suggest is too make some phone calls too co~workers or share your talents too others. If you have too! make something up like a 'white lie' but not a tradegic lie as such though one you can pull off that will appear good too you and them. Lonelieness is the worst feeling. So do not let it wash over you.....act upon it but there is no rush. Take step by step....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24220310.post-49643033150196261282006-12-14T23:11:00.000+00:002006-12-14T23:11:00.000+00:00People treat aquired disability as a tragic bereav...People treat aquired disability as a tragic bereavement and as such treat you as if you had just lost a close family member. The difference is that unlike true bereavement there is no funeral, no closure in their eyes it doesnt wear off because they see they wheelchair for ever and to them it is akin to wearing black or carrying the decaying corpse around with you!<br /><br />Moving to new area is hard to get new friends, becoming disabled its hard to get new friends, not having a steady job its hard to get new friends. You have done it all at once.... It's bloody hard to get new friends!<br /><br />I consider you a new friend but even though we live almost in the same county we are still almost 100 miles apart and thats a shame because we share a lot of interests in music ect. I would have loved to have you come to see Vin Garbut with me last week as he was so funny you'd have been peeing your self (although thats no real measure of funnyness when the audience is spinally injured!)<br /><br />This is just a mix of long dark nights, short days, hormones, new home, job /life uncertainty and it will pass. Belive me all manner of things will pass because you have survived spinal cord injury the hardest test you are ever likely to have.<br /><br />Very best regards<br /><br />TAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24220310.post-45501878870538130372006-12-14T08:12:00.000+00:002006-12-14T08:12:00.000+00:00Crap, that's an awful feeling and reality. I don'...Crap, that's an awful feeling and reality. I don't know what keeps people from hanging out with people with disabilities, but that seems to be common on both sides of the pond.yanubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16216993058216698199noreply@blogger.com